Saturday, 5 April 2008

Richard or Ri as his family used to call him attended the Oratory School in Chelsea of course, the kids in the school had a whole set of names for him: Spock or Spook , he took all this in good part and made many friends.
Richard’s character then as later was one of friendliness and of being laid back (nothing would phase him). Maybe he had an insight into how the sixties would be remembered. He was both gentle and caring but woe betide any bullies that saw this as weakness, they would often end up on the wrong end of a punch and not bother him again.
He progressed through secondary school at the London Oratory Grammar and was successful at all the subjects he tried. He soon became one of the years high flyers and would entertain the parents with piano recitals. With his all round success his confidence grew. This confidence gave him the opportunity to lead a different life to the one mapped out for most of the school leavers in the seventies. Richard knew that he could confidently jump off the normal path and go and tour the world with the full knowledge that he could rejoin and excel at his chosen direction when he decided.

He was of course smart enough to recognise the benefits of having a profession behind him, and so went of to Medical school in Southampton. Now whether this was his decision or was he conforming for his Mum and Dad, we will never know. But following his graduation as a Doctor he got back on track to see the world, he was now his own Man and would not conform again unless he felt it was the right thing to do.

Steve Eveleigh

1 comment:

KIERANCONNOLLY said...

Dear Spock and family

I am sorry I could not get to the service as my plane from Lisbon to Gatwick was cancelled .
I wemt to the Oratory with Spock and he is the first of School friends to leave us .

I have lots of memeories of him and cannot remember him being rude or nasty about anyone .

We shared a love of music at starting i at 14 15 . Spock, Steve E , amd I used to help a friend Chris Curtin with his mobile disco and this led to various church halls etc with Steve E of course being the driver .

We also used to go to Chelsea College Student Hall on a friday to what would be called an Air Guitar disco: Yes Spock could mean Air Guitar .

We also used to go to lots of concerts together ; we used to pick someone out from NME or Melody Maker and go .We got to see Queen before they hit success at the Imperial College Student Hall for 10 pence .I think Spock's brother Frank got the two of us access to the Gig .There were only about 200 people there ,Freddie Mercury and co on a tiny stage ,dressed in his full pomp , 3 encores , great great memory .

He and I were occasional members of a really dire Band who tried to practice on Sunday' in Eamonn Reynolds bedroom .

My Mum is still alive and was sad to hear and immediately remembered the occasional cakes from his parents Patisserie in Battersea .

Spock you are the probably the nicest person I have ever met and i miss you every time I play Rory Gallagher in particular .

Best to all

Kieran